Howard R. Greene

Howard R. Greene

LAKEVILLE — Howard R. Greene, 83, of Wilton, Conn., and Lakeville passed away peacefully in his sleep on Sept. 12, 2020, at his home. 

Howard was born on July 26, 1937, in New Haven, Conn. After graduating from Dartmouth College with honors in 1959, Howard went on to receive graduate degrees from New York University in history and American studies and Harvard Graduate School of Education. 

He read widely, had a passion for history and literature, and maintained a profound belief in the importance of a liberal arts education. Utilizing his experience as an associate dean of admissions at Princeton University, Howard founded a profession in 1968 when he began privately counseling students through the educational planning process from secondary school and college to graduate and professional schools. The focus of his work was never about just “getting in” to particular schools, but rather guiding students to make choices most appropriate for them in creating active, productive and fulfilling lives. Howard loved helping young people from all over the world to launch their adult journeys, knowing instinctively how to support them with warmth and compassion at critical junctures on their paths.

Howard was deeply committed to the belief that given the right educational opportunities, all children could thrive. Driven by this principle, Howard was dedicated to increasing educational access for all students, which he enacted as a board member of A Better Chance and of Horizons National, organizations focused on opening the doors of independent schools to under-served children. Howard also shared his strategic and educational guidance as a trustee of Choate Rosemary Hall, New Canaan Country School, Berkeley Divinity School at Yale, the Connecticut chapter of the National Endowment for the Arts, and the National Advisory Board of the Woodrow Wilson National Fellowship Foundation. 

As an author of more than a dozen books and host of two national PBS programs on educational and financial planning, as a board member of the Wilton Library Association, and as an Elder of the First Presbyterian Church of New Canaan, Howard worked tirelessly to spread his expertise widely and in his home community. 

Howard will be deeply missed by his family, whom he inspired to become educators in their own right, and all those who knew him. 

Throughout his life, Howard so clearly embodied love — love for his family, love for his community and love for the thousands of students and families whose lives he touched during his more than 60-year career. Howard gave a piece of himself to every individual he encountered in his long life, and his pride in all his children and grandchildren was unequaled. 

Howard is survived by Laurie Sheldon Greene, his wife and partner of 46 years; his brother, Ronald; his children, Adam, Matthew, Katharine and Andrew; and his six grandchildren. 

Memorial services will be announced at a later date. Donations may be made in Howard’s name to Dartmouth Partners in Community Service through the Dartmouth Center for Social Impact; Wilton Library Association; or any other educational or public library organization.

Latest News

Robert J. Pallone

NORFOLK — Robert J. Pallone, 69, of Perkins St. passed away April 12, 2024, at St. Vincent Medical Center. He was a loving, eccentric CPA. He was kind and compassionate. If you ever needed anything, Bob would be right there. He touched many lives and even saved one.

Bob was born Feb. 5, 1955 in Torrington, the son of the late Joesph and Elizabeth Pallone.

Keep ReadingShow less
The artistic life of Joelle Sander

"Flowers" by the late artist and writer Joelle Sander.

Cornwall Library

The Cornwall Library unveiled its latest art exhibition, “Live It Up!,” showcasing the work of the late West Cornwall resident Joelle Sander on Saturday, April 13. The twenty works on canvas on display were curated in partnership with the library with the help of her son, Jason Sander, from the collection of paintings she left behind to him. Clearly enamored with nature in all its seasons, Sander, who split time between her home in New York City and her country house in Litchfield County, took inspiration from the distinctive white bark trunks of the area’s many birch trees, the swirling snow of Connecticut’s wintery woods, and even the scenic view of the Audubon in Sharon. The sole painting to depict fauna is a melancholy near-abstract outline of a cow, rootless in a miasma haze of plum and Persian blue paint. Her most prominently displayed painting, “Flowers,” effectively builds up layers of paint so that her flurry of petals takes on a three-dimensional texture in their rough application, reminiscent of another Cornwall artist, Don Bracken.

Keep ReadingShow less
A Seder to savor in Sheffield

Rabbi Zach Fredman

Zivar Amrami

On April 23, Race Brook Lodge in Sheffield will host “Feast of Mystics,” a Passover Seder that promises to provide ecstasy for the senses.

“’The Feast of Mystics’ was a title we used for events back when I was running The New Shul,” said Rabbi Zach Fredman of his time at the independent creative community in the West Village in New York City.

Keep ReadingShow less