Joseph A. Deferari

North Canaan — Joseph A. Deferari, 86, died peacefully on  March 17, 2009, at the Westchester Medical Center, after a brief illness.  

Born on March 19, 1922, in North Canaan, he was the son of the late Maria (Marangoni) and Joseph Deferari.  

Joseph was the husband of the late Anna M. (Fracasso) Deferari, who died April 20, 2006. They were married for 60 years. They lived in Lakeland, Fla., for 16 years and returned to North Canaan in 2005.

He attended local school in North Canaan and was a graduate of Housatonic Valley Regional High School.  

Joseph was a veteran of World War II.  He served in the U.S. Army Air Force as a radio repairman, aircraft equipment, and held the rank of staff sergeant.

He served in the European theater and was engaged in air combat in the Balkans.  

After returning home from the war, Joseph was employed for 27 years at DeBarberi’s Fruit Market in North Canaan.  

After leaving there, Joseph became the produce manager for the Shagroy Supermarket in Salisbury, where he worked until his retirement.

Joseph was an avid bowler, and life member as well as past commander of Couch Pipa Post #6851 VFW in North Canaan.  He also was a communicant of St. Joseph’s Church in North Canaan.

He is survived by his sister, Justina Katan of Rumney, N.H.; his brother, Anthony J. Deferari of North Canaan; and several nieces and nephews.  

In addition to his wife, he was predeceased by his sister, Rena Kellogg.

A Mass of Christian burial was held March 20 in St. Joseph’s Church in North Canaan.

Arrangements are under the care of the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home in North Canaan. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.  

Memorial donations may be sent to St. Joseph’s Church, PO Box 897, North  Canaan, CT 06018, or to the Couch Pipa Post #6851 VFW Scholarship Fund, North Canaan, CT 06018.

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