Mary Lou Purcell

FALLS VILLAGE — Mary Lou (Gerlinger) Purcell, 87, of Falls Village died Oct. 27, 2010, with her family by her side, after a brief stay in a hospice facility in Auburn, Maine.

Mary Lou was born on July 17, 1923, in Thief River Falls, Minn., eldest daughter of Lajla (Dale) and Charles Gerlinger. Her father was a Congregational minister there.

After graduating from high school in Sioux Falls, S.D., Mary Lou earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from Yankton College in Yankton, S.D., in 1945. She attended Yale Divinity School in New Haven, and went on to earn both a master’s degree and doctorate from Teachers College at Columbia University in New York City.

In 1954, she became a widow at 30 years of age, when her husband, a minister at the Essex Congregational Church and a Ph.D. candidate at Yale, was stricken with bulbar polio and died suddenly, leaving Mary Lou with an 18-month-old daughter and a son who was born five months after the death of his father.  

Margaret and Allerton Eddy of North Canaan, who were close friends, invited Mary Lou to stay with them during this difficult transition, and it was at this time that she began building the strong connection to the Northwest Corner of Connecticut that remained for her entire life.

Mary Lou had a long and distinguished career as an educator and leader in family life studies.  She began her professional life as the director of Teen Age Programs for the New Haven YWCA, and continued her career as an assistant professor of sociology and psychology at Earlham University in Richmond, Ind.; professor and chairman of the Home and Community Division of Stephens College in Columbia, Mo., and completed her career as professor and head of the Family and Child Development Department of the School of Human Sciences at Auburn University, Auburn, Ala.

She retired from teaching in 1988 and returned to her beloved northwest Connecticut in 1990 with her husband, Dale.

While living in retirement, Mary Lou served as president of the Falls Village-Canaan Historical Society from 2002 to 2007 and founded and coordinated for 13 years the popular historical summer lecture series, Tuesdays at Six.

She was a member of the Litchfield County University Club Scholarship Committee and board of directors. She and  Dale were co-presidents of the Housatonic Camera Club from 1996 to 2000.

She is survived by a brother, Charles, and his wife, Renate, of Boston; a daughter, Amelia, of Bethel, Maine; a son, Jon, and his wife, Sheryl, of Oceanside, Calif., and their three sons, Jonathan, Christian and Evan; a stepson, David Purcell, and his wife, Beth, of St. Louis, Mo., and their three daughters, Erica, Megan and Jody; a stepson, Steve Purcell, and his wife, Maud, of Stratford, Conn., and their daughter, Alix; and a stepdaughter, Pamela Erickson and her husband, Dan, of Conifer, Colo. She was predeceased by her husband, Dr. Dale Purcell; her parents; and her two sisters, Anne and Jane.

Family and friends are invited to a celebration of her life at the Falls Village Congregational Church on Beebe Hill Road on Saturday, Nov. 20, at 1 p.m.  

In lieu of flowers, those who wish to make a gift of remembrance may send a contribution to the Falls Village-Canaan Historical Society, PO Box 206, Falls Village, CT 06031 or the Falls Village Congregational Church, Beebe Hill Road, Falls Village, CT  06031.

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