Catherine Smith Flaherty

WINSTED — Catherine “Kay†Smith Flaherty, 82, died unexpectedly at her home May 11, 2010.

She was born Aug. 3, 1927, in St. Albans, Vt., the daughter of the late Nellie and Thomas Smith. Mrs. Flaherty was widow of William “Doc†Flaherty, who died in 1983, and was a Winsted resident since 1953.

Kay was a graduate of Bay Path College and was a member of several clubs and service organizations in Winsted. She was retired from Northwestern Connecticut Community College and had served on the board of Northwestern Connecticut Community College Foundation. She had been a member and active volunteer at St. Joseph Church.

An avid fan of UConn women’s basketball, Kay also enjoyed celebrating every holiday, her Irish heritage, her St. Albans roots, vacations on Cape Cod and the activities of her extended family.

Kay was a caring aunt to many nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews.

She is survived by two daughters, Pamela Colavecchio and her husband, Alan, of Winsted and Rear Admiral Karen Flaherty, USN, and her husband, Dr. Steven Oxler, of Moorestown, N.J.; a cherished granddaughter, Elizabeth F. Oxler; her sister, Virginia Stapleton of Ridgewood, N.J.; and two sisters-in-law, Mary Jane Smith and Lena Smith, both of St. Albans, Vt.

She was predeceased by two brothers, Leo Smith and John Smith; and a brother-in-law, Paul Stapleton Sr.

A Mass of Christian burial was celebrated May 15 at St. Joseph’s Church in Winsted. Burial was in St. Joseph’s New Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate contributions to the W.L. Gilbert Trust, for the William D. Flaherty Scholarship Fund, The Gilbert School, 200 Williams Ave., Winsted, CT 06098. To leave an online condolence, visit maloneyfuneral.com.

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