Ralph Henry Stanton Sr.


NORTH CANAAN - Ralph Henry Stanton Sr. died Feb. 4, 2008, after a short stay at Sharon Hospital. He was nearly 88 years old. He was the husband of Roberta M. Stanton.

Ralph was born at home on Feb. 11, 1920, in North Canaan. His parents were Adela A. (Howell) and Ralph Herbert Stanton.

He attended grade school in North Canaan and graduated from Canaan High School in 1937. He attended Penn State in 1943.

Ralph loved to play baseball. Like his father and uncles before him, he was a very talented athlete. Ralph played shortstop and his brother, Sam, was catcher for the North Canaan team for many years. Hunting and fishing were pastimes learned as a country boy that he actively pursued.

As a boy in the 1920s, he became very interested in airplanes and flying. He later learned to fly at the old Canaan Airport, which was located where Tallon Lumber is at present.

Ralph worked for his father and with his brother at Stanton's Lumber Mill from 1935 to 1955, with a break during the war years. Until about 1949 the mill was moved to and from various timber harvest sites in the Tri-State area. After 1948, the sawmill became fixed at its present location on the family property in Green Acres.

Ralph initially went into the Army Air Corps but was transferred to the 66th Division, "The Black Panthers," in France during World War II. When hostilities finally ceased in the Lorient Pocket in 1945, the 66th Division was sent to Germany.

Within a very short time, the division was to be redeployed to the Pacific Theater. Fortunately, the war in the Pacific ended before they could embark. After arriving home from World War II, Ralph was persuaded to join the reserves. The Korean War broke out and he was once again called to active duty in 1950. He served with Company B of the 101st Signal Battalion. He left the Army with the rank of staff sergeant.

He returned to civilian life and worked for various local businesses. He established a saw sharpening business in the late 1950s, and also mowed local fields and plowed driveways with his Farmall tractor until his death. Ralph continued to operate the old sawmill by himself for personal use and for periodic customers through 2007.

Ralph returned to flying in 1960 after a 10-year hiatus. He contributed to the restart of the new Canaan Airport on West Main Street and flew until 1985, when he sold his Aeronca Chief due to an ear problem.

Ralph was an avid reader. Science magazines and Zane Grey novels were his favorites.

A very lucky man, he survived two wars and because of them he traveled to Europe and the Far East. Contemplating a move to Alaska, he drove his family there in 1963 for a visit.

In 1999, he fell at the mill and broke his neck, yet he was able to get on his tractor and drive it up to the house, holding his head in place with his hands. He was met there by the ambulance crew. He recovered in a surprisingly short time.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by a son, Ralph H. Stanton Jr. of North Canaan; a daughter-in-law, Patricia G. Stanton of North Canaan; his grandsons, Thomas and Wyatt Stanton of North Canaan; a daughter, Patrice Stanton-Lenaburg and her husband, James, and granddaughter, Sasha Lenaburg, all of Keller, Texas; and a sister-in-law, Mary W. Stanton of Sarasota and her children and their families.

He was predeceased by his brother, Samuel H. Stanton of North Canaan and Sarasota, Fla.; and his sister, Emma H. Stanton of North Canaan.

A memorial service will be held at the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home in North Canaan Friday, Feb. 15, at 11 a.m., with a reception to follow at Geer Village.

A military honor ceremony will be held in the spring at the Stanton family burial plot at Mountain View Cemetery in North Canaan, where his ashes will be laid to rest alongside those of his parents and sister. A notice will placed in the newspaper with the date and time.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the North Canaan Congregational Church Book of Remembrance.

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