Community support needed for Valyou's return


MILLERTON — Stephen Valyou and his family are about to witness just how much their community cares about them. The young soldier is scheduled to return to Millerton after spending months in Florida, recuperating from serious injuries sustained in Iraq while serving on behalf of this country.

Valyou was an EOD (Explosive Ordnance Disposal) sergeant and team leader. This spring he was shot in the shoulder while conducting post IED (Improvised Explosive Device) EOD operations, causing life-threatening injuries. He went to Walter Reed Medical Center in Washington, D.C., before being sent to the spinal rehab center in Tampa, Fla. Now confined to a wheelchair, Valyou was joined by his wife, Melissa, and their son, Nathan, while recovering. Now they’re coming to Millerton for a visit, after which they reportedly plan to make a permanent move back.

Before they arrive for their visit, some local residents want to make sure things are special for Valyou’s return. The Valyous will stay at Melissa’s parents’, Rebecca and Don Totman’s, home. The couple own Daisi Hill Farm.

"I understand he’s coming home and it sounds like he’s going to be here for a while and we want to get a ramp on his mother-in-law’s house," Q 103 FM’s NASCAR Dave MacMillan said, adding that Valyou also needs a chair elevator installed. The lift has already been donated by an area company. "We’re going to try to get together and get this ramp built. We just found out about it and we’re going to try to get it done this weekend. We have a limited time schedule, so we’re looking for help."

Mariley Najdek and Nancy Ellis are right there on the sidelines, waiting to help in any way they can. In addition to looking for manpower to help build the handicap-accessible ramp, the pair is seeking monetary donations to help the Valyous prepare for life back here in Millerton.

"We thought it would be a wonderful idea to raise funds to help the Totmans make their house handicapped-accessible for their son-in-law," Najdek said. "If we are so lucky that we have excess funds after we get finished we just want to keep them in a fund for the family to assist them with their new home to make sure that it’s totally handicap-accessible."

"When you hear a story like that, it’s heart-wrenching," MacMillan said. "Something like this happens and it changes their whole life. The least we can do is get a ramp made."

"I just think that we need to take care of people from our community a lot more, and we have to start someplace," Najdek said. "I’ve known the family for a long time and I know how difficult this is for everybody."

Donations may be sent to Adopt-A-Family, PO Box 880, Millerton, NY 12546. Note on the check or money order that it’s for the Stephen Valyou fund.

To volunteer to help build the ramp, call Ellis at 518-789-3380, or Najdek at 518-789-9488. Carpenters and laborers are needed.

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